As you know, there are countless books out there offering up relationship advice. In this short article we will attempt tell men what they should know if they want to be fruitful in their pursuit of the modern woman.
Probably the best single piece of advice for men is not so much to listen to what women say they want, but to actually observe what women want. How can you observe what they want? It can be as simple as looking at the type of men women choose.
Women usually say that they want a man who listens to them. Then they choose a guy who dominates a conversation without really listening to their opinion. Or, Women say that they want a guy with a sense of humor. Then they date the unfunny guy that has money. So why is it that women say they want one type of guy, but go out with a guy who is the opposite of what they say they want? The answer to that question is within the subconscious motivations of what drive her choices. And, there is the foundation for my advice.
The biological and historical reason for men and women to get together is simply to become mates and propagate the species. Sounds far fetched, but when you think about it we are all just animals in that sense, and the instinct to find the "right mate" is still buried somewhere in our sub-conscious. Now I'm sure the last thing a woman may have on her mind when looking for a person to date is getting pregnant, but when she is evaluating that certain person on the subconscious level, she is still seeking the man who will become the best father for her offspring.
Does being a good father mean you have to be a good listener? No, not really. It means you will be someone who is a good provider for her children. And, if you are judged to be the person who will be able to provide for her children, then you are someone who has the confidence in themselves to know you can bring home the goods.
Women do have a need to find a man who can be good provider. A man can produce millions of sperm on many repeated occasions during their adult lives, and during their entire lives, women have many, many chances of producing a child. As a result, in spite of what it may seem at times, what women really want is a man who can provide that stability for her, and the children.
If a man tells a woman he is a Doctor, or a Nurse, which do you think she would historically choose? Usually the Doctor would have a better chance of landing her for good. That is because she believes that the Doctor would be a better provider for her family.
But just having a good income is not nearly enough. A woman wants to know that her man is generous with what he has and will be that good provider for her children. That is probably why women place a value on receiving gifts.
It might also be the reason why that engagement ring should be a major purchase. When you ask your girlfriend to become your wife, you would, of course, give her a ring. But not just because it is the tradition, or because it is a romantic gesture, but because it is a very visible and tangible display that you will be able to provide for her, and her future children. Much like a man may have done 100,000 years ago when he brought home the largest hunk of mammoth meat to impress her, there was a value in that then, and this is now. But don't think you can go out a buy a side of beef and get the same reaction. You probably won't.
Even though us modern humans tend to rely more on our brain matter than our physical strength to make money, women are programmed to look with favor on a man with strength having the ability to provide for her. So the modern woman might choose the construction worker over the computer programmer.
Does this mean that you need to go out and get your M.D. and become a bodybuilder? Well no, not really. But as you can see there are certain underlying traits that will impress a woman, and give you an advantage from an evolutionary point of view.
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